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Thứ Hai, 28 tháng 11, 2016

Tips On Giving Newlywed Romantic Gifts To Friends And Family

By Christopher Richardson


Celebrating the union of two people is a milestone that deserves all the gifts and blessings in the world. It is not everyday that an individual finds someone they choose to be with for the rest of their lives and this kind of happiness should be shared with friends and family. The gifts that are received by the couple are a symbol that the people they both love are supportive of their union.

Wedding gifts can either be the things you give to the bride and groom or what you get from them. The concern actually lies more on the what attendees of the wedding should be giving them. Finding good newlywed romantic gifts are not as romantic as they should actually be practical.

How wonderful it would be if for every wedding invitation there was also a list of things that people should avoid giving newly wed couples. If you can come up with something that is both romantic and practical for them then you have solved a problem that has plagued wedding goers for centuries. The closest and most appropriate gift that can fit both romantic and practical would be cash.

It would be a stretch too far to say that a single item given by friends or family can affect the marriage in the long run. But initially these things are meant to boost their building of a family to the right direction. The first thing that you should avoid giving are pets. They do not need another liability in their lives, when one, they may be planning to have kids, or two, have spent a fortune on the wedding.

Things that have embossed letters, especially monograms should only be acquired by the bride and groom or anyone who helps with organizing the ceremony. Towels, jewelry or anything really that are monogrammed can be disastrous. And they would also have a hard time returning the gift. The worst thing that could happen is that you might get the wrong initials.

Self help books that advice them on any aspect of their marriage or having kids can be a 50 50 matter. But best to lean on the 50 that says do not do it. The things is that this gesture can be misconstrued. While this may be given with the best intentions, it just tells the newly weds that they are less than qualified to have tied the knot.

Pieces of furniture, large or small ones should be given second thoughts. Choosing the right one would take a lot of time, research and even preparation. This is to make sure that everything in their home aesthetically fits. Buying them should be left to the newlyweds. If they say that they want a particular piece and you seem apprehensive on the details, then just choose to give money for them to purchase it.

A mortal sin in gift giving is re gifting. This should not even be on the list but there may be those that may think that this will save them money, if they really have nothing to spare. There is no shame in that, but best just not to give anything other than your best wishes if that is the case.

Engaged couples preparing for their union have a hard time asking for cash, even when that is probably what they need the most. The matter really is just an issue of etiquette. As an attendee, if you still are unsure about what to give, then best to just go with money, a gift card or a special perk of a service you know they can use in the future.




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